Stacia DID IT! She fired Debbie Downer! Problem Bridesmaid is GONZO!!!!
I'm so proud of Stacia. After reporting earlier this week that Debbie Downer had fallen off the radar, she emerged with a vengeance a couple of days ago complaining to Stacia about money and the orange colour of the bridesmaid dresses. She actually told Stacia, "I'm upset to buy a dress that I will not be able to wear again cause I hate orange and anyone who knows me knows I will NEVER wear it".
WHOA.
Ok, first of all, who really cares what you think, it's Stacia's wedding! Secondly, you know damn well the colour orange is Stacia's favorite colour.... so there was a huge possibility you would be wearing an orange dress. Heck, I knew that 4 years ago!! Thirdly, you don't tell the bride that you hate her wedding colours if you are in her bridal party. Fourthly, I distinctly recall Stacia having to fork out $$$ for a bridesmaid dress for Debbie Downer's wedding (after one of her bridesmaids quit or got fired, one or the other!) Stacia knew she will probably never wear that dress again, but she went along with it without complaining. (I've since suggested to Stacia to sell the dress on ebay).
Anyway, Stacia confronted Debbie Downer for the last time about her behaviour. DD's first response was clueless....like "what did I do wrong?? I don't know?" (I'm serious, that was her summed up response). Stacia explained to her in detail again what went wrong. This time, DD didn't even dispute what Stacia had said after Stacia spelled it out for her. DD basically accepted that she is gone from the wedding party.
I know that was a tough thing for Stacia to do, I've been there too. We've both had to fire bridesmaids from our weddings, which isn't the most pleasant thing to do when people are involved and emotions are high. My constant advice to Stacia throughout has been to trust her gut, it never lets you down. I firmly believe that, no matter what anyone else thinks or believes.
Go Stacia!!
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